Judgements?

I did what I said I would never do.  It’s like when as little kids we said we would never fall in love. And we end up doing that. It’s inevitable right? Or is that just me? Is it just me who thinks it is okay to do something they said they would never do? Now I’ve done this thing. Let’s call it The Thing because of confidentiality. I’m going to go Humbert Humbert mode on you, that don’t mean that you nymphets should be worried. Gentleman of the jury, I know many people who have done The Thing but everyone is aware of this. And they are heavily judged and called a “bad person”. But here I am also having done The Thing, but I’m still the same person. Not judged at all.

How does this work?